Wednesday, December 31, 2008 @ 1:05 AM
It's a Family day for the Wee family.
I couldn't get to sleep the whole last night. Only manage to catch 2 hours of sleep from 12 noon to 2pm. After i woke up, i help to wipe the windows and mopped the floor.
Post birthday dinner with the family and my sis bf at Clementi after which we went to Jurong Point to watch Ip Man. Awesome movie!! And Jurong Point is damn BIG now!!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008 @ 3:45 AM
I missed my long hair... This is my last photos of me with my long hair. This is how long my hair was. I kept it for about a year.
@ 3:09 AM
My only Xmas pressie for year 2008
Friday, December 26, 2008 @ 6:54 AM
5 more days to a new year!
@ 6:35 AM
Last night was at Oosh attending Jie Wei ROM ceremony. The event starts at 630pm but i was there around 1pm to do the setting up and decorations of the place for him with some other people. Saw Ticky with her bf first then saw Audrey with her bf later there. Its so coincidence to meet them one after another and i very long never see Ticky already. We had so much beer at Oosh that u can see almost everyone is high. Especially the groom. We left there about 1130pm and we headed to Liang Court Party World with the usual gang. I happened to see a couple of my female friends when i was at Liang Court. Left Party World & headed home at 5+am.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008 @ 2:15 AM
Singapore Lions fall under the mighty Vietnamese at the Kallang stadium breaking their 21 unbeaten streak in this tourament.
@ 2:03 AM
Christmas is round the corner. How are you gonna celebrate with your loved ones?
Recently i watched Love Actually on the tv. After watching that show, i felt kinda sad. That show makes me ponder about alot of things in my life. I was think of who exactly is my love ones beside my dear family? Christmas is a time of giving love and sharing quality time with your love ones. This year on Christmas eve, i will be attend my friend's ROM ceremony. Without this event, what will i be doing? Who will i be going out with. I really do not have an answer to this question. In fact that friend of mine who is getting hitched on Christmas eve is my one & only best friend. Maybe i should just get myself a partner.
Saturday, December 20, 2008 @ 7:22 AM
Wasn't online for afew days as my notebook is spoilt and i have to send to Acer for repair. The blood power board pin came off and was stucked in my adapter's hole and blood burn my adapter connector. The new power board is blood expensive. Cost me 30 bucks for it. On top of that there is the bloody labour charge. Which doesn't come cheap also.. Worse of all they have 7% GST. I mean GST for what. OMG!! No choice man. Cause my notebook is not under warranty anymore..
@ 7:15 AM
13/12/08 Saturday
ZOUKOUT!!! Was fantastic and awesome. Above & Beyond is damn good. Made a last minute decision to go. Only got the ticket on the very last day which is on 12/12/08 friday. Went there saw Gerald & his friends and hang out with them for awhile before joining Kerson & jimmy and their friends for the rest of the nite. Sad man... Last min then go ppl jio me go.. If not i wont be going for the event. Had so much vodka redbull the whole nite. Saw a couple of friends which i haven seen for very long...
Me & angeline
Haha.. its me!!
Friday, December 12, 2008 @ 5:02 AM
First time i'm the first to alight the transport after work...
Thursday, December 11, 2008 @ 2:29 PM
Have you seen the domino effect of 25 jager bombs? I seen it. It takes over a few seconds for the last shot to be drop in the glass of Redbull.
Last night was a really tiring day. Dinner with my parents at Clementi. Then drop by Actors to look for chow just to say hi and a glass of single malt whisky. Next stop is million tears with GR, Roger & Mccoy. Its just a meeting place for us before we head over to Double O with the rest of the guy. After Double O was Rebel. First time there since its opening. Gone is the black metal cage but come along is the new cheap look iron grill like those in lock up. Haha. But the bar layout and design is much more pretty now.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008 @ 4:47 AM
The AFF Suzuki Cup is a biennial football competition organised by the ASEAN Football Federation, accredited by FIFA and contested by the national teams of Southeast Asia. It is formerly known as the Tiger Cup and Asean Football Championship, has become a symbol of football prowess in South East Asia since its first staging in 1996.
Indonesia and Thailand have been chosen as co-hosts for the group stage of the 2008 AFF Cup. Both are no strangers when it comes to hosting this event. Indonesia hosted the tournament in 2002 while Thailand were hosts in 2000 and co-hosts in the last edition.
Right now Singapore is in the run for the final. They have already book a place in the semi-final. It will be played on a home and away format. For topping the table of Group A, Singapore will be playing away first. Their opponent is either Malaysia or Vietnam depending on the result of the last fixture of Group B. Most importantly is Singapore won't get to face Thailand till the final if they manage to cruise pass the semi-final.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008 @ 4:13 AM
Before you decide to say breakup..
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and
said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again
I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know
what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She
didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, "why?"
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks
and shouted at me, "you are not a man!"
That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly
give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl
called Dew. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She
glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten
years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her
wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had
said for I loved Dew so dearly.
Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to
see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce
which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer
now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something
at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell
asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When
I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care
so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want
anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She
requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible.. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's
time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage..
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to
recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She
requested that everyday for the month's duration I carry her out of our
bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy.
Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request. I
told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and
thought it was absurd. "No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face
the divorce", she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was
explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms.
His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the
sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my
arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; "don't tell our son about the
divorce." I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the
door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I
hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was
not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was
graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered
what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy
returning... This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was
growing again. I didn't tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry her
as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few
dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses
have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that
was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me; she
had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the
moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his
father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I
turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this
last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through
the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and
naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held
her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I
drove to office... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door.
I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind... I walked upstairs.
Dew opened the door and I said to her, "Sorry, Dew, I do not want the
divorce anymore."
She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. "Do you have a
fever?", She said. I moved her hand off my head. "Sorry, Dew", I said, "I won't
divorce". My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't
value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other any
more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding
day I am supposed to hold her until death does us apart.
Dew seemed to suddenly wake up.. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the
floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The
salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:
'I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart'
The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship.
It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that
matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot
give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you
just might save a marriage.
Relationships are made not to exploit, not to be broken.
Monday, December 8, 2008 @ 11:05 PM
Went for the Standard Chartered Marathon last Sunday. Took me 6 hours to complete it. Its my first time running a marathon. The feeling is worse than walking 32km route march. Right now still feeling the pains and aches after the run and last night i slp for ard 20hrs. The longest in my entire life. Respect and salute to everyone that completed the marathon.
My running BIB
The Championship medal
Yes it says 42.195km
Singapore Marathon 2008
The finisher tee
Monday, December 1, 2008 @ 7:01 AM
Two rounds of mahjong in the day over at James place and chill chatted with Brian & Jojo at East Coast in the middle of the night for around 3 hours.
Me & angeline
Haha.. its me!!
My running BIB
The Championship medal
Yes it says 42.195km
Singapore Marathon 2008
The finisher tee
